The Underestimated Value of Quietness

We have had a very cold, dark, snowy winter which is typical of winter but usually my husband and I try to get out and walk but it has also been icy and rainy. Interestingly, in this season, I have been content to stay indoors and not go anywhere. In fact, my husband asked what I wanted for Christmas, and I quickly replied, “margin”. The Good Book says, “Ask and you shall be given” and I was given(margin) in abundance. I can’t remember when so many meetings were cancelled because of illness (not mine!) or bad roads. The downturn in activity has been wonderful for my soul, to read, reflect or do other things at home that nourish one’s soul, like cleaning out closets and files. I have found a new version of myself, and I think since I have taken time to physically, mentally and emotionally declutter, I have been thinking more clearly and maybe even more efficiently

One of my new thrills is seeing a blank space on the calendar and knowing that that day is not being commanded by an obligation and has incredible potential. Since I am semi-retired, I can sit with my coffee a little longer and read the newspaper or start my exercise. I can also reach out to someone who I haven’t heard from in a while or volunteer. Having the possibility of creativity in my day is inspiring. While I do like to stay busy with worthwhile pursuits, having margin ensures that I have emotional and mental energy to bring to these activities.

On the flip side of this issue, I have also empty space for those people I have lost in the previous year. I miss the biweekly phone calls with my godmother who passed away this time last year. I miss the family and friends who used to occupy a close space in my life and now, are no longer there. These people gave contour and color to my days.

 Instead of grieving for what has been, I am thankful for these gifts. Then, while it is good to fill these empty spaces and places with good people and things, I will continue to make room for the quietness of life

Emptiness is not a mere emptiness, but rather fullness in which the distinctiveness of everything is thoroughly realized. -Masao Abe

Silence isn’t empty, it’s full of answers. -Unknown

For thus said the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel,
“In returning and rest you shall be saved;
    in quietness and in trust shall be your strength.” Isaiah 30:15 (ESV)

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